My proudest moment as a mother has arrived. Mia said “please!” It is one of her first 20 words and it is music to my ears. She has been signing “please” for many months and that was quite a thrill as well, but to actually hear it from her mouth is such an honor. Just this morning, at 5:00 a.m., Mia was in bed with me in the pitch black November morning. She began to squirm, crawled over my face and whispered, “buk, pees.” And she repeated it time after time after time. Despite all my pleading with her to PLEASE close her eyes for 5 more minutes, I finally deemed her request completely reasonable, and dove into the Vegetable rap. Her cheery head bobbing was more of a pick-me-up than the richest mug of Stumptown.
It's hard to imagine a more precious little thing in the whole world. At 17 months, Mia is as joyful and as spirited as ever. She lights up the room with her smile and occasionally wakes up with a clearly defined curly-Q on top of her head. She still weighs just over 20 pounds and is still long and lean (at least before her meals, that is!). She's holding on to her blue eyes, but they are slowly developing little flecks of brown and green. She has rosy cheeks, olive skin and glistening white teeth. Her molars have been cutting through for months now and she still loves sucking that good-old thumb. Her hair is growing in thick in the back. The top and sides are taking their time. Her light brown locks are curly and soft and beautiful. Her teachers at school love to put a pigtail right on top of her head.
Mia is charming and playful. Her current favorite toys are her books, broom, stacking boxes and stacking rings--especially the one that sings, crayons, stickers, the popcorn popper toy, her farm, flash cards, colander, the corks, bugs in a jar, soap crayons, and the ukulele. She still loves her little yellow blankie and doesn't let it out of her sight. She enjoys the chime of the bird clock and the tick tock of the bike ring clock. She loves turning on and turning off the lights and opening and closing the garage door. She would be happy opening and closing anything for hours. It's one of her current favorite past times. She also loves moving things from one place to another. Just today, she moved leaves from one pile to another then moved the pile into the leaf bin…one leaf at a time. It was an enormous help to her tired mom!
Mia has busy weeks. She has transitioned beautifully to her new school. They love her there and constantly comment on how she enthusiastically bobs her head "yes." She takes a nap on a mat and eats at the table every day. She’s becoming quite adept at wielding a spoon and has completely refused to eat on her plastic tray. She will only eat at the table. She loves playing with her buddies and enjoys story time. Drop-off is a bit stressful for Mia. She doesn't like it when I leave, but she usually quiets down after a minute or two. A couple of times, she’s let me leave without a fuss. Frankly, it's torture for me to leave her everyday.
Mia loves her time on Mondays with Auntie Anna. Yesterday, they ate scrambled eggs and made duck masks out of egg cartons. SO fun! Mia is so lucky to have her!
Mia misses her dog Reggie. It's been tough not seeing him everyday, but she has found a new best friend in Jake. Every morning, Mia bids Jake goodbye and waves to him as he races out the door. She would love it if he would sleep in her crib with her, but he says he'd prefer to sleep on mama's face.
Fall has definitely arrived on Maplecrest Ct. and the leaves are abandoning their branches for their much-anticipated descent to the Earth. Mia and I have enjoyed watching the storms blow through. We are lulled to sleep by the rain and don’t mind staying in our PJs until it blows over on Sunday mornings. She has her first set of rain boots and it has become quite apparent that puddle stomping is certainly one of her talents.
Mia is learning to talk. About a month ago, she began babbling and playing with different sounds. She made robot-type noises and swished around Rs and Ls and Ts and Bs as if she was trying to communicate with aliens. She mimicked my rising and falling intonation and produced made-up words that implied her understanding of interrogatives, imperatives and negatives. I can hear the echo of my dad's teaching; “if you want to speak clearly and be understood, you must use your lips and your teeth and your tongue,” in heavily stressed enunciation. Poor Mia…I’m totally going to be saying that to her before long. Each day, she adds new words to her repertoire. So far, she can say, please, bye-bye, hi, ball, bird, baby, bath, bug, apple, waffle, blueberry, milk (she says, “meh”), uh-oh, oh-no, oh-boy, All done, book, tons of animal sounds, mama, Ma (for gramma), Bop (for grandpa), Missy, Na (for Annalise), Hi Jake, Bye Jake, Audrey, spider, purple, blue, open, close, nut, meow, pee-pee, diaper, breakfast, water, waffle, bread, bagel, doggie, Reggie, more, no (one of her favorites), up (she says “bup), she’s trying to say thank you and some more that I’ll have to add later. Hearing her speak is such a sweet sound.
Mia had a nice Halloween. We dressed her up in her Wonder Woman costume on Friday and went to her school party. We painted a pumpkin, dug for ghosts and had a snack. On Sunday (actually date of Halloween), we got together with baby Ella and her family, Auntie Missy and Chad and went trick or treating in Multnomah Village. There was a huge parade of people in elaborate costumes. Mia started to be able to say “trick or treat” and she immediately understood the game. She had a blast. After that, we went trick or treating at the Sherman's house and at Gramma and Grandpa’s. When we rang the doorbell, Gramma brought out a bag of treats for Mia (blueberries) and a little present of Mia’s favorite farm animals to put in her pumpkin. Then, we ate delicious stew and went trick or treating at Baby Grace’s house and the family in the gasoline house across the street. Mia was joyful and giddy when she got to put her treats in her bucket. I’m thinking that next year, I’m probably not going to be able to trick her into giving me all her candy.
November has been a typically rainy month. Every time Mia and I go out to rake our leaves, moments later, the ground is completely covered again. To be honest, I don’t mind so much. Mia loves the smell of the rain and enjoys playing in the leaves. She loves opening and closing Reggie’s gate and playing peek-a-boo by the back fence. Typically, it’s tough to get her to come inside.
We’re looking forward to Thanksgiving in Alpine with Gavin and Coen and can’t wait to put up our Christmas tree. I can just see the joy on Mia’s face when we light up the lights.
Despite the chaos that is our life right now, Mia’s days are filled with love and laughter. I am doing my best to keep her on a safe, stable routine and remind her everyday how much I love her. Sometimes, when she looks at me with those big, round eyes and holds her gaze for more than a few seconds, I think she is telling me, “Mama, everything is going to be alright.” When she says it, I can’t help but believe her.

